Girls' Bedroom Secrets

Domination

What do you think about being dominated?
Lucy: I think girls like it when a bloke knows what he’s doing, so it is quite sexy.
Sara: And it’s nice if they do the hard work for you, if you know what I mean.

What sort of things do you like?
L: I like it when they grip you really tight.
S: Yeah, it’s really passionate – and you know they mean business!

Do you ever like to take control in bed?
S: It depends how many drinks I’ve had, but if I’m with the right person, then I’ll go for it.
L: Take the bull by its horns!
Both: Ha ha!
S: Men love it when you take the initiative.
L: I love being in control, but I’ve got to admit that it’s also really nice when they let you know that you’re in for a seriously good time…
S: Yeah, knowing they’re going to take charge and show you who’s the boss is really hot.
L: There’s nothing sexier than a man in control!

Is there a bad time to try and take charge?
L: Once or twice I’ve found myself having to tell a bloke to calm down a bit, especially in public.
S: Yeah, or if you’re not in the mood, but they’re going at it hammer and tongs. Ha ha!
L: I suppose they can’t help it.
S: Yeah, they’re just being enthusiastic.

Would you ever let a man tie you up?
S: Yes! The best thing to use is a silk tie or tights.
L: Handcuffs can dig in too much, or some are too big and your wrists come out of them.
S: Unless you use furry ones.
L: Like those cute, pink fluffy ones!

Would you ever tie a bloke up?
S: I’ve never been asked to, but I suppose I would if the mood was right.
L: It’d be the ultimate act of girl power, tying a bloke up – but I think it would be a bit of a waste of his big strong arms and hands if they were tied behind his back.
S: I couldn’t agree more!

What’s the benefit of being tied up?
L: Well, it’s the power factor, leaving him to decide how long you have to wait.
S: I like it when they tease you, then go down on you and then finally have sex with you.
L: Just thinking about it is quite exciting – the thought of him being able to do whatever he wants, and you’re all helpless…

So would be being tied up and a bloke going down on you be a fantasy of yours?
L: I think I’d have to say yes!
S: But being tied up and then blindfolded would be even kinkier.
L: Come to think of it, it probably would be…
S: We should give every single man a rope and blindfold!
L: That could be a bit dodgy, men everywhere carrying those around…
S: Well, they could keep it to the bedroom.

Do you think more men should be try being dominant with girls?
S: I think they should at least give it a go, if they haven’t already.
L: And you should definitely try a bit of tying-up action. It will put a thrill into your night.
S: Or day!
L: Or afternoon!
S: Actually, there’s never a bad time to tie your girlfriend up.
L: Unless she’s late for work…
S: Or if you’re expecting visitors.
L: But, then again, that could be quite exciting!
S: Hmm… when you put it like that…