Bedroom Secrets

Dressing Up For Sex

Have you ever dressed up in naughty stuff for a bloke?
Amy: Yeah, loads (giggles). One boy I was seeing had a bit of a fetish for naughty shoes. Any shoe that had a really stupidly high and sharp heel had him gagging for it.

Did you keep the shoes on for sex?
A: Yes, and I used to wear thigh-high boots a lot – but they’re a nightmare as your heels get snagged on the duvet. But as long as it works for them! A lot of guys are into kinky footwear. I think it’s a real turn on when you do the whole dominatrix thing.
Georgina: I’ve always wanted to dress up and have always had little outfits to try out on men. It can be anything – from lovely underwear and a slip top to a maid’s uniform. I’ve got loads of things.

What was your first experience of dressing up for a man?
A: The first time was a sexy basque with stockings and suspenders, but then it got more full on! I recently bought a new maid’s outfit with the cute little thing for your hair.
G: Oh, yes, I’ve got that – with the cute little apron that basically has no back to it, so you can see everything!
A: You too?! I once wore crotchless tights. They feel so weird – it’s like you’ve forgotten to get dressed!

But did wearing crotchless fishnets turn you into a sex-vixen?
G: Definitely. I think what you wear – or don’t wear – can make you feel very sexy.
A: I think you’re right in general, but in that particular instance I just felt like a complete plonker, like I was ready to go wrestling or something. I felt so vulnerable.
G: I bet your bloke liked that.
A: Probably!

Did a bloke buy the crotchless fishnet bodysuit for you?
A: Yeah, and I’ve had loads of other stuff bought for me. Handcuffs, whips, chocolate sauce… the lot! Nutella is the best in my experience.
G: Yeah, it’s yummy. The combination of sex and chocolate – I mean, really: can it get any better?

Have you ever worn naughty things in public?
A: I always keep my dressing up for the bedroom.
G: I sometimes used to wear a basque under my work uniform. I’d call up my ex-boyfriend and tell him I was wearing it in work. He liked those calls.

What’s been your most rewarding result from dressing up?
G: I did a strip dance once, and I didn’t let him touch me, like in a proper lapdance. He loved it. Not that I’d ever done it before – but I’d watched them and even had one myself, so I thought, why not? He couldn’t touch me until I was ready. The sex was fantastic. And he had the most amazing cock in the world! It really was just a lovely cock.
A: I had a friend who used to say that cocks look at her funny.
G: Yes! They do look at you funny, don’t they? But you have just got to love them, haven’t you?
A:Yes, I love them.

Both: (Giggle lots.)