Bedroom Secrets

Sex Toys!

Do you own any sex toys?
Georgina R: I’ve got a Rampant Rabbit and a lovely purple dildo, which is a reasonable size and not too scary.
Gemma L: I’ve got one that’s around seven inches, like a normal-sized dildo…
GR: Yeah, something you can fit in a large handbag.

Do you take your vibrators out with you, then?
GR: No! But I’ve seen the little lipstick-sized ones you could take out. I have a tiny one that’s for external use – it just vibrates on the outside and I rub it against my thighs. It’s got little dots on the top to give sensations on your surface.

By ‘surface’, do you mean clitoris?
GR: Yes. (Starts to giggle)
GL: I just use them in the bedroom. (Starts to giggle as well)

What was your first ever experience with a sex toy?
GL: It was only last year! I’d been dating this boy for quite a while, so we wanted to spice it up a little bit and get some toys in. He suggested it – just wanting to have a bit of fun and that. He ordered it over the internet from Ann Summers.

Do you think more men should be like that?
GR: Yes. Boys should take you out shopping and buy you a gift, and then subtly go into Ann Summers.

What’s the best sex toy you’ve ever used?
GR: The Classic Rabbit. But it’s quite intense, so you don’t want to use it all the time. You need to psyche yourself up.
GL: I like smaller ones. I think the massive ones are a bit daunting.
GR: Sometimes your arms aren’t long enough. It’s awkward when you’ve got a big machine and you’re trying to relax.

Have you ever used anything as a substitute for a sex toy?
GR: I tried a carrot but it was too cold!

Have you used any lubricants?
GL: Yeah. I find they help, but usually, because my clit turns me on, I don’t need K-Y as I’m aroused gradually.

What’s the quickest you can orgasm?
GR: It depends. If I’m alone and in the mood I can do it in under a minute. I can nearly have an orgasm without even going near myself – it’s all in the mind. Boyfriends can’t handle me. The boys think it’s them, but it’s all to do with my head.

Has a fella ever used a sex toy on you?
GL: Yeah, and I really liked it. But he started it on the really fast setting and I was like, ‘No, come on, let’s work our way up!’ But after he slowed down it was really nice. Men get a bit carried away. I think they enjoy it, don’t they?
GR: It’s good as long as they don’t just do this… (Does plunging movement) They have to use their hands as well.

How does an orgasm with a dildo compare with one during proper sex, or oral sex?
GR: They’re very different orgasms. Both are satisfying, but for quite different reasons. With the guy it’s more intense because he’s actually there, and you don’t have to imagine anyone else. And you’re being touched by him, which is nice. It’s far better with a man, to be honest. But for quick satisfaction, and especially if you happen to be single, the vibrator is good.

And for multiple orgasms?
GR: Yeah, it’s easier to have multiples with a vibrator because you’re in complete control. With a guy, he might move or something.
GL: If you’re single, the vibrator is great, but I prefer having sex with a man. Him touching you… rubbing his hands on you… It’s just much better.